On the desktop site, the links actually generate a video, on the Lemmy post so you don’t actually have to click on the links to see most of the content. (Except maybe for the entire video description, and info on the uploader.)

And then there’s this one https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9gvswd1I8qo

Sprite rule.

I agree with, the post op on this, because look. If a person identifying as one gender is cross dressing to look a certain way, they are not trans just from that because at the end of the day it is just cloths. Also where you say, “You don’t think about how you respond to people’s missteps” you seem to be broadly talking more than just simply cross dressing, but since you didn’t say anything specific I won’t judge you, but that is suspicious.

I’m telling anyone that’s listening,

the Fediverse, is the new forums. Any forum sites out their from the past, should join the Fediverse, it’s the only way for them to stay relevant. Google isn’t it anymore, you have to be on social media, or no one will know you exist. (not talking about those who may already know, but new potential users)

You’l want to adjust, brightness, contrast and gamma of your screen.