Eastern european countries would like to have a word with you.

https://www.auchan.ro/bere-blonda-bucegi-225l/p

Pursue what you want but just make sure you don’t go trough a cryssis in your fourthies after twenty years of marriage.

Or a therapist to figure out why they are avoiding their natural urges.

In my country we have a saying which goes like this: “you fuck or you don’t, your cock’s time is passing”. Make of that what you will.